Such cases often have complex causes and it is imaginable that not all contributing factors have been identified or communicated. Some people opined that low weight wheel design is at fault. If a team can identify a contributing factor that fits better in the PR picture they can simply leave the other one out. McLaren do not have a particular track record lately for sticking to the facts as we have seen in November last year with the publications of Mr. Bishop in the Renault affair. I can imagine that they would stay mum about something that doesn't fit the corporate image when they have some other explanation that could also apply.
I would agree that all teams run a certain risk of safeties getting thin and accidents occuring. we have seen this during the tyre war. they pushed the tyre performance to a point where failures occurred more often than they do now. I don't want to characterise McLaren particularly for such mentality but there are differences in the risk taking between teams. for instance I believe that Peter Sauber would not have let Kimi drive with a flatspotted tyre that eventually tore the suspension apart and nearly caused a very dangerous collision.
On the other hand I dont't think that McLaren would deliberately put a driver at risk if they definetely know of a faulty component. between those extremes you find all shades of grey. seldomly there is a clear cut case when you look at such risks. they have to be weighted against the need for performance and those decisions do involve the mentality of the team principal.
If I have some criticism it applies more to the FIA for not being consistent. I believe they have treated the problem at McLaren more lenient than the one at Red Bull.