My Dads from Istanbul, Besiktas area, I used to go often and love the city. I grew up in the UK but I have a little bit of understanding of Turkish issues. One major difference I find is if im walking around a non tourist area random turks can just walk up to you and start a conversation. This friendliness is rare in most places in the UK

Im immensely proud of my Turkish routes, but im slightly less proud of things like the genocide denial and some Kurdish issues.
True, the West does pick and choose what it wants to hear. Like Kurdish terrorist groups causing havoc, my cousine in Turkey was pretty traumatised from his stint in the army where he was engaged by a group of Kurdish militants. And I understand that Turkey has done things like building Kurdish towns up and giving some support.
But equally, things that went on with the Turkish military in the 70s in Kurdish towns is pretty horrific and hasn't done anything but fuel the problems now. Things have changed signficantly, but laws limiting Kurdish TV viewing and Kurdish language teaching I don't like at all.
Its important on these things to use the perspective your nationality gives you, but not not to let it cloud your judgement and stay balanced. As much as I am aware of Turkish culture, I grew up in the UK so I don't claim to know everything someone growing up in Turkey would, but I try and be logical about things.